Proven Ways On How To Win Your Man Over Perpetually

  The End of the Traditional "I Do" The traditional, gender-essentialist vows that couples use for their wedding ceremonies are no longer relevant in a society of equality. The “I do” has been a part of marriage ceremonies for centuries. However, the traditional “I do” is not relevant anymore in a society where we live in an atmosphere of equality. Today, people can get married without making any promises and still get legally recognized as spouses. We think it is time to explore other possibilities for the ceremonial “I do” to better represent what marriage means today. Men's Dating Expectations: What They Really Want from a Woman  Men have always desired a woman who can be their partner and friend. They look for someone who is confident, intelligent, and interesting. Men tend to want someone who is equally as interested in them as they are in the woman. What Men Want in a Relationship ? It is not easy to be a man in the 21st century. Men have always wanted to feel neede...

  Have your heart fallen for a gu as a woman and you are at a loss how to get his attention without being desperate? You prefer that that man chase you, right? Well, a Lady friend is currently experiencing the same issue when she opened up to me a few days ago. She told me of how her heart has fallen for a guy but being the traditional type she won't be one to make the first move. This being because of the fact that it's most likely to make her seem desperate and cheap. So, I sat her down and explained to her how men are different from women, what men want in a woman, and most importantly how to trigger a man's interest and how to make him chase you sincerely So today we are going to talk about some fun ways to trigger and keep a man's interest and get him to start chasing you with the best intentions. The most important of them being your feminine energy i.e femininity which contrary to the rhetorics of modern feminists is not a weakness but a strength. Make sure that ...

Many a time many women have often assumed that they know what men what in a relationship that most often when the question of what they are going to bring to the table is asked them. they quickly that they have all the answers since they earn a decent income and s quite good looking without even knowing that they understand the question in the first instance. Please we progress further, its important that you know that men do not care about the many degrees you have in your name or the weight of your paycheque. Rather they are more interested in you being there for him to encourage and cheer him up. This is why it is wrong for any woman to respond that she will be bringing her many degrees or worst still your money to the table because he did not ask you out because of financial security but someone that will give him a listening ear. Someone that will be there for him to nurture his many wounds from the battles. This is often when you have most eligible high-value men by-passing most...

I agree that every woman out there must not be Cardi B or Angelina Jollie to attract and keep men’s attention. All that is needed is an understanding of men; what they want out of the relationship and then doing your best towards being that woman while still being yourself How to make a guy want you Let’s tell ourselves the truth a greater majority of women go about attracting the man that may be caught their fancy, the wrong way.  Men may be attracted to good looks but a disrespectful, loud-mouthed woman is a big NO! NO! for most men. So don’t think it’s all about your looks, degrees, or career. Men go into serious relationships not because he wants to catch fun but to have peace and stability I am assuming that you are on a quest for a serious relationship as a result of which you are reading this now. Be assured that you won’t be disappointed here. Here are the key issues you should take reconsider so that you will be able to attract the kind of men you want in your life. 1. Co...

1. They want to be queen in kingless kingdom 2. They want to be treated equally as men only it favor them but are quick to complain on not being treated right when it doesn't favor them 3. They want fairness in our competitive world but won't complain when they get a FREE PASS at nightclubs and men don't. 4. The don't complain of unfairness and double when companies are compelled to give a certain employment quota solely to women and men none. 5. They are FREE to change their minds and walk out of a relationship without repercussions but a man don't. A visit to the courts will attest to that. 6. It's right for them to seen and taken as a gift but a No! No No! when a man wants to be treated as such. 7. They want an end to "gender roles" but talk of asking a man out, "no that's his job". 8. They want equality and fairness but won't complain when women and children are given priority over men in emergencies. 9. A man who doesn't send...

  I’ve been married for two years; we dated for three beforehand. It took me a LONG time to figure out — and gosh, it’s so obvious! — that men’s brains are completely different from women’s. Here’s a few examples, and note: I’m not trying to generalize. I speak from experience. Men do not pick up on hints or subtleties.  If you want or need something, speak up frankly. Instead of, “Jane’s boyfriend got her the prettiest blue earrings for her birthday; I wish I had some too,” say, “Babe, for my birthday/our anniversary/the next time you want to spoil me, I want some blue earrings. Here’s a picture of the ones I like.” Your man will be  delighted . There’s nothing unromantic about saying what you want and getting it. Men look for a way to fix things for you.  They are creatures of action. If you don’t want action (i.e., if you just want to vent or grouse or complain), say so up front. This cannot be said often enough. Example: “Honey, I need to vent. Can you just lis...

 1. Trying To Settle Down Too Early : There's this temptation to start planning for marriage in your mind when you meet you meet a good man, finally. Be warned! Such a move can scare the man away because he is most likely to see you as to too desperate and that your sole aim is to trap him into marriage. 2. Comparing Him To Other Men — It's hard to resist the temptation of desiring that he treats you like Mr A or Mr B treats his woman that start wondering why you your man doesn't measure to the way the other does. Please understand that every person is unique in his or her own ways and appreciate him for whom he is. Wanting him to be like that other man  is a quick way to kill off whatever you guys and to push him away. 3. Not Giving Him Enough Space —  Believe it or not the fact remains that men love their space. Anything other than that, makes them feel like they are being held in captivity Once in a while he may want  to hangout with friends or even be alone ...

  1 .Mind games : Men hate mind games and unnecessary emotional drama. We deal with too many manipulative situations in real world. We don’t want the same from our lovers. Some times tantrums and a bit girly behavior is cute, but all the times, it kinda suck. Girls use various tactics to keep men at their feet by employing the following tactics a. Disallowing physical love or withholding sex as a soft (cruel) punishment. I have heard a female friend of mine confessing to me that ‘to teach him a lesson’, I will be nice to him,fulfill his every desire but with hold sex or physical touch! b. The silent treatment which is nothing but a combination of emotional  and psychological toture. c. Stressing the man out by taking time that longer than necessary for every thing like a date or accepting your proposals by creating a false time lag, which is often done get more power in the relationship. d. Purposely not initiating everything  the relationship including  little thin...

1. SUCCESS - Both men and women want it all. The difference being that women want a balance in life and is most likely to reject a job offer that doesn't offer that. Men on their part want status and status symbols like houses, cars etc. 2. Emotion - Both men and women feel love but they express it differently. A woman easily talks and shares about her feelings of love, hate and anger but for a man, it's a different story. He rarely talks about it the way a woman does, as a result of the societal standard that expect a man to be "strong". 3. Conflicts - They react and manage conflicts differently. A bad day for a woman is most likely going to end in tears and she relapses in the mode of apportioning blames to who did this and that.  A man is most likely to into some outburst after which you will get him shutting out the situation. You may even find him removing himself from the scene. 4. Friendship - A man is likely to have fewer friends when compared to women. ...

 1. Femininity - I understand that you need to  to survive in the modern jungle of our society. However being overly too "strong" will hamper your chances of attracting the attention of the male folks. This is not the issue of birds of same same feathers flocking, rather it's an attraction between opposites. Men are generally made to be stoic and strong, a soft effeminate woman who knows her swag will always get heads turning towards her because of her feminine appeal . 2. Ability To Trigger The Hero Instinct In A Man - always making men around you feel like a "hero" will win them over. You can achieve this by simply appreciating little things that he did for you and calling him sweet names that make his head swell . 3. A Sense Of Humor - no body wants to be around someone who is always serious whether it's a man or a woman. A sense of humor and the ability to make a man lighten up from his day-to-day work and  laugh is good 4. Confidence - contrary t...

It's a known fact that very little or absolutely no information exist on what men want in a relationship and how to understand the male folks. Which has given rise to many assumptions and other wrong ideas about men among the women folks that they tend to see the males as a mistake in creation.   Consequentlynsequently, many of enter into relationship wrongly and with a wrong idea of men.  The resultant is claring when you look at the ra of divorce and break-up  So what do men really want in a woman?  You may be surprised if I tell you that whatmen are very simple, too simple that they are often neglected.   Here are :   1.Feminine Lady   2. Ability to trigger the hero instinct in their man   3. Sense of humor and cheerfulness   4. Self confidence  5. Open to adventures  6. Wearing a smile   7. Being Caring   8. Being playful   9.Having a listening ear  10. Intelligen...

It's quite surprising to discover that quite a majority of women don't really know about men as a result of which they make the mistake of either seeing the as a genetically malfunction and consequently make effort to change him to suit her sissy fancy which is nothing but an invitation to hearth break and disaster.

Although there is no seemingly girlish magic wand which u cannot control a man's feelings towards you with.  There are some things within your control that you can use to get his attention and to show him how special you are. This may seem as pretending but the hard truth is that you can get a man to start loving you by being sincere, positive, and energetic whenever you are around a man. PRESENT A POSITIVE IMPRESSION OF YOURSELF :  You should endeavor to present a positive impression about yourself by putting time and energy into your physical appearance.  You will be more confident in everything you do when you’re healthy and strong and consequently attractive. • You should stay active with constant exercise. Instead of skipping your schedule to spend time with him; invite him over to join in your sessions •You should ensure that your hair is neat and styled properly. Also don’t neglect your personal hygiene  •Make sure that you develop the hab...

1. Men are not women I know that this sounds so freaking stupid to even have to say this (are you totally rolling your eyes rn?) but men are not women. They think differently and act differently. Their motivations behind the things that they do are not what you think. The main problem comes in when women expect men to behave/think/act as a woman would. One quick example of this is how women like to talk a lot and this is the main way we bond. This is not how men bond. Men bond with others by doing activities with them. Talking is not really required. So if you're expecting to bond with your man by talking (because that's how you bond with other women), it's going to backfire. Now, of course, you're going to need to actually communicate with any man that you're in a relationship with. But less is more. Save your long-winded, deep philosophical conversations for the females in your life. 2. Men are not great at multitasking. Men are genetically hardwired to...

Visit any relationship platform either online or offline and you will be overwhelmed with lots and lots of articles and  what women want in a relationship and tips and how to give it.  The surprising thing here is that there's little or absolutely no space giving to the male folks to express themselves in matters of relationship.  Which I believe is the reason behind a lot of relationship nightmares many ladies are having because most of them know little or nothing about men   1. To feel like your hero We don’t want to be your Clark Kent. We want to be your Superman. We want you to see us as leaping tall buildings in a single bound and catching bullets. Not pushing a mail cart and asking you if we can buy sugar cereal < — true story when I was a boy and married. We want to carry you in our arms and show you the world. Or at least feel that way. And I know it’s our job to get there, not yours. But nothing gives us more strength than a woman who...

By: Ashlynn G Aris What's going on there? Why do you like the shy guy in the first place? As you probably know, way too many women in our society are going the wrong way when it comes to attracting good men. They find bad ones easily, but never a good man. This may have happened to you too. And unless you see something really special in your shy guy so that you feel he's like a diamond in the rough, it's not entirely recommended you pursue him. A shy guy can really be a good guy in disguise, or is social shyness could be a sign of more issues hidden in the dark, and that's bad and you don't want that. Have you ever tried to summon the courage and talk to a big man, and just immediately feel like he put up a stone wall all the suddenly and hits you with silence? Like why is he so cold? Why do men sometimes suddenly hit us with silence for no reason? It's mean and scary that way. It's like, passive aggressive. Ladies, if your shy guy is like this...

By: Tina L. Jones Did you know that there are common mistakes women make that can run men off? Are you afraid of pushing your guy away? Do you want to strengthen your relationship without putting pressure on him to commit?  If you are ready to take your relationship to the next level, but you don't know how to do it without running him off, then read the following article which will help you avoid the common mistakes women make with men. To begin with, you will need to change yourself before you even attempt to change him. You might not even be able to change him at all, so changing your own outlook and ideas could be the best that you can do. Men need space. One of the most common mistakes women make when it comes to men is crowding them. Men like their alone time and sometimes they don't feel like talking. If you ask your man what's bothering him and he says nothing, leave it alone. Oftentimes, women will mistake this as meaning that their man has a problem ...

#1 Be Decisive and Strong Sure, biologically guys are programmed to be in control. But this doesn’t mean you should become his lap dog. Or that you rely on him to make  every single  decision. If he has to decide everything for you from where to eat to what to do next Saturday night, he’ll become super bored, or worse, annoyed very quickly. He chose to be with you because of who you are.  Keep being that strong, independent woman and watch as it draws him in deeper! #2. Keep Living YOUR Life Early on, it can be hard to resist spending every waking moment with your lover. But resist you must! Because even though he says he wants to be around you non-stop and do every little thing together,  your man will miss and crave you  more when you’re not around. Two powerful ingredients when it comes to commitment. You had your own exciting, adventurous life before he came along. Don’t stop living it just because now he’s in your life. Go grab a cock...

I have always said that men love a good sex and that just like the lead  character in Charles Hawkins’s Oliver Twist “Oliver”, they will keep coming back for more. However you must know that  it takes more than just a good sex to keep him committed to a relationship with you even if you guys are married. It’s true that he may easily get excited sexually when you do some normal stuffs, just like a child who saw a  pack of candies in it’s mother’s hands but the fact remains that if you only stop at that alone, you are most likely to lose him soon to another who has something more to offer. You need to give him more and stability than everything and you are assured that he will perpetually be committed to you. If you’re in a position to support him financially or otherwise in the pursuit of his dreams, please do. But you have sure he’s at peace and that he doesn’t endangered or trapped because of the help you had given him. His love and affection should never be seen...