Proven Ways On How To Win Your Man Over Perpetually

  I’ve been married for two years; we dated for three beforehand. It took me a LONG time to figure out — and gosh, it’s so obvious! — that men’s brains are completely different from women’s. Here’s a few examples, and note: I’m not trying to generalize. I speak from experience. Men do not pick up on hints or subtleties.  If you want or need something, speak up frankly. Instead of, “Jane’s boyfriend got her the prettiest blue earrings for her birthday; I wish I had some too,” say, “Babe, for my birthday/our anniversary/the next time you want to spoil me, I want some blue earrings. Here’s a picture of the ones I like.” Your man will be  delighted . There’s nothing unromantic about saying what you want and getting it. Men look for a way to fix things for you.  They are creatures of action. If you don’t want action (i.e., if you just want to vent or grouse or complain), say so up front. This cannot be said often enough. Example: “Honey, I need to vent. Can you just listen for five minute

 1. Trying To Settle Down Too Early : There's this temptation to start planning for marriage in your mind when you meet you meet a good man, finally. Be warned! Such a move can scare the man away because he is most likely to see you as to too desperate and that your sole aim is to trap him into marriage. 2. Comparing Him To Other Men — It's hard to resist the temptation of desiring that he treats you like Mr A or Mr B treats his woman that start wondering why you your man doesn't measure to the way the other does. Please understand that every person is unique in his or her own ways and appreciate him for whom he is. Wanting him to be like that other man  is a quick way to kill off whatever you guys and to push him away. 3. Not Giving Him Enough Space —  Believe it or not the fact remains that men love their space. Anything other than that, makes them feel like they are being held in captivity Once in a while he may want  to hangout with friends or even be alone by  him

  1 .Mind games : Men hate mind games and unnecessary emotional drama. We deal with too many manipulative situations in real world. We don’t want the same from our lovers. Some times tantrums and a bit girly behavior is cute, but all the times, it kinda suck. Girls use various tactics to keep men at their feet by employing the following tactics a. Disallowing physical love or withholding sex as a soft (cruel) punishment. I have heard a female friend of mine confessing to me that ‘to teach him a lesson’, I will be nice to him,fulfill his every desire but with hold sex or physical touch! b. The silent treatment which is nothing but a combination of emotional  and psychological toture. c. Stressing the man out by taking time that longer than necessary for every thing like a date or accepting your proposals by creating a false time lag, which is often done get more power in the relationship. d. Purposely not initiating everything  the relationship including  little things like text messag

1. SUCCESS - Both men and women want it all. The difference being that women want a balance in life and is most likely to reject a job offer that doesn't offer that. Men on their part want status and status symbols like houses, cars etc. 2. Emotion - Both men and women feel love but they express it differently. A woman easily talks and shares about her feelings of love, hate and anger but for a man, it's a different story. He rarely talks about it the way a woman does, as a result of the societal standard that expect a man to be "strong". 3. Conflicts - They react and manage conflicts differently. A bad day for a woman is most likely going to end in tears and she relapses in the mode of apportioning blames to who did this and that.  A man is most likely to into some outburst after which you will get him shutting out the situation. You may even find him removing himself from the scene. 4. Friendship - A man is likely to have fewer friends when compared to women.

 1. Femininity - I understand that you need to  to survive in the modern jungle of our society. However being overly too "strong" will hamper your chances of attracting the attention of the male folks. This is not the issue of birds of same same feathers flocking, rather it's an attraction between opposites. Men are generally made to be stoic and strong, a soft effeminate woman who knows her swag will always get heads turning towards her because of her feminine appeal . 2. Ability To Trigger The Hero Instinct In A Man - always making men around you feel like a "hero" will win them over. You can achieve this by simply appreciating little things that he did for you and calling him sweet names that make his head swell . 3. A Sense Of Humor - no body wants to be around someone who is always serious whether it's a man or a woman. A sense of humor and the ability to make a man lighten up from his day-to-day work and  laugh is good 4. Confidence - contrary t

It's a known fact that very little or absolutely no information exist on what men want in a relationship and how to understand the male folks. Which has given rise to many assumptions and other wrong ideas about men among the women folks that they tend to see the males as a mistake in creation.   Consequentlynsequently, many of enter into relationship wrongly and with a wrong idea of men.  The resultant is claring when you look at the ra of divorce and break-up  So what do men really want in a woman?  You may be surprised if I tell you that whatmen are very simple, too simple that they are often neglected.   Here are :   1.Feminine Lady   2. Ability to trigger the hero instinct in their man   3. Sense of humor and cheerfulness   4. Self confidence  5. Open to adventures  6. Wearing a smile   7. Being Caring   8. Being playful   9.Having a listening ear  10. Intelligence and smartness   NB: Watch for part 2 in 48 hours where I shall provide details about the above mentioned

It's quite surprising to discover that quite a majority of women don't really know about men as a result of which they make the mistake of either seeing the as a genetically malfunction and consequently make effort to change him to suit her sissy fancy which is nothing but an invitation to hearth break and disaster.

Although there is no seemingly girlish magic wand which u cannot control a man's feelings towards you with.  There are some things within your control that you can use to get his attention and to show him how special you are. This may seem as pretending but the hard truth is that you can get a man to start loving you by being sincere, positive, and energetic whenever you are around a man. PRESENT A POSITIVE IMPRESSION OF YOURSELF :  You should endeavor to present a positive impression about yourself by putting time and energy into your physical appearance.  You will be more confident in everything you do when you’re healthy and strong and consequently attractive. • You should stay active with constant exercise. Instead of skipping your schedule to spend time with him; invite him over to join in your sessions •You should ensure that your hair is neat and styled properly. Also don’t neglect your personal hygiene  •Make sure that you develop the habit of having a

1. Men are not women I know that this sounds so freaking stupid to even have to say this (are you totally rolling your eyes rn?) but men are not women. They think differently and act differently. Their motivations behind the things that they do are not what you think. The main problem comes in when women expect men to behave/think/act as a woman would. One quick example of this is how women like to talk a lot and this is the main way we bond. This is not how men bond. Men bond with others by doing activities with them. Talking is not really required. So if you're expecting to bond with your man by talking (because that's how you bond with other women), it's going to backfire. Now, of course, you're going to need to actually communicate with any man that you're in a relationship with. But less is more. Save your long-winded, deep philosophical conversations for the females in your life. 2. Men are not great at multitasking. Men are genetically hardwired to

Visit any relationship platform either online or offline and you will be overwhelmed with lots and lots of articles and  what women want in a relationship and tips and how to give it.  The surprising thing here is that there's little or absolutely no space giving to the male folks to express themselves in matters of relationship.  Which I believe is the reason behind a lot of relationship nightmares many ladies are having because most of them know little or nothing about men   1. To feel like your hero We don’t want to be your Clark Kent. We want to be your Superman. We want you to see us as leaping tall buildings in a single bound and catching bullets. Not pushing a mail cart and asking you if we can buy sugar cereal < — true story when I was a boy and married. We want to carry you in our arms and show you the world. Or at least feel that way. And I know it’s our job to get there, not yours. But nothing gives us more strength than a woman who creates a spac

By: Ashlynn G Aris What's going on there? Why do you like the shy guy in the first place? As you probably know, way too many women in our society are going the wrong way when it comes to attracting good men. They find bad ones easily, but never a good man. This may have happened to you too. And unless you see something really special in your shy guy so that you feel he's like a diamond in the rough, it's not entirely recommended you pursue him. A shy guy can really be a good guy in disguise, or is social shyness could be a sign of more issues hidden in the dark, and that's bad and you don't want that. Have you ever tried to summon the courage and talk to a big man, and just immediately feel like he put up a stone wall all the suddenly and hits you with silence? Like why is he so cold? Why do men sometimes suddenly hit us with silence for no reason? It's mean and scary that way. It's like, passive aggressive. Ladies, if your shy guy is like this

By: Tina L. Jones Did you know that there are common mistakes women make that can run men off? Are you afraid of pushing your guy away? Do you want to strengthen your relationship without putting pressure on him to commit?  If you are ready to take your relationship to the next level, but you don't know how to do it without running him off, then read the following article which will help you avoid the common mistakes women make with men. To begin with, you will need to change yourself before you even attempt to change him. You might not even be able to change him at all, so changing your own outlook and ideas could be the best that you can do. Men need space. One of the most common mistakes women make when it comes to men is crowding them. Men like their alone time and sometimes they don't feel like talking. If you ask your man what's bothering him and he says nothing, leave it alone. Oftentimes, women will mistake this as meaning that their man has a problem

#1 Be Decisive and Strong Sure, biologically guys are programmed to be in control. But this doesn’t mean you should become his lap dog. Or that you rely on him to make  every single  decision. If he has to decide everything for you from where to eat to what to do next Saturday night, he’ll become super bored, or worse, annoyed very quickly. He chose to be with you because of who you are.  Keep being that strong, independent woman and watch as it draws him in deeper! #2. Keep Living YOUR Life Early on, it can be hard to resist spending every waking moment with your lover. But resist you must! Because even though he says he wants to be around you non-stop and do every little thing together,  your man will miss and crave you  more when you’re not around. Two powerful ingredients when it comes to commitment. You had your own exciting, adventurous life before he came along. Don’t stop living it just because now he’s in your life. Go grab a cocktail with the girls, tak

I have always said that men love a good sex and that just like the lead  character in Charles Hawkins’s Oliver Twist “Oliver”, they will keep coming back for more. However you must know that  it takes more than just a good sex to keep him committed to a relationship with you even if you guys are married. It’s true that he may easily get excited sexually when you do some normal stuffs, just like a child who saw a  pack of candies in it’s mother’s hands but the fact remains that if you only stop at that alone, you are most likely to lose him soon to another who has something more to offer. You need to give him more and stability than everything and you are assured that he will perpetually be committed to you. If you’re in a position to support him financially or otherwise in the pursuit of his dreams, please do. But you have sure he’s at peace and that he doesn’t endangered or trapped because of the help you had given him. His love and affection should never be seen as one that y

I have always said that men love good sex and just like the lead character in Charles Hawkins' Oliver Twist "Oliver", they will keep on coming back for more and more. However it will be a grave mistake on your part if all you can offer is good sex. In fact the basic thing that men in any relationship is not necessarily sex but to be respected. He wants a woman that he will be her king and who will treat as such. You should understand that men want to be respected as a man in all situations. So endeavor to always treat asking which he rightly is. I know that there are some moments when you might get mad at him and will like letting have a heat of your anger. Your anger is well understood, my dear, but the way you do it can doom or bliss for your relationship.

Many a time I see women complain of men being so hard to please and/or satisfy which have resulted in relationships breaking up. The truth remains that any woman who wants a blissful relationship with a man must first and foremost forget about the battle of the sexes and who eventually comes out as the winner and invest herself in understanding men, what makes them unique and different. Understanding that men are different from women in many aspects us paramount to a blissful relationship. Expecting otherwise or that the man fit into a certain romantic or gentleman mold that you have cast in your mind is nothing but a disaster waiting to happen. Here are a few key areas that you should have in mind, to avoid making the mistake of pushing him away f yourself: Reasoning/Thinking : Although a man and a woman of equal educational background are most likely to come to the same conclusion in a reasoning project. However, men to reason and/or see things logically, put in another w

By:  Stan Onodu   Have you been so hurt in your relationships that you have sworn never to love again? Has your heart been broken and shattered by someone you trusted entirely? I had suffered severely in the hands of one girl early in my search for true love. No sooner had we met, did she present to me a myriad of fake conditions that seemed pathetic. She tricked me into believing that she had a lot of family challenges ranging from her mother being bed-ridden in her village to her facing imminent eviction from her apartment by her land lady. I saw myself as a God-sent for her and I was doing all I possibly could to support her. I paid her house rent for an outright twelve months. I put food on her table. I covered her nakedness and I was constantly footing the medical bills for her sick mother. On the few occasions when the animal in me would rise to demand for sex from her, my conscience would tell me that it would look as if I was helping because of sex. I never deliber

By:  Stan Onodu How long have you dated your present partner? Some ladies have fallen into the trap of being in a relationship for 5 to 10 years. This is sometimes occasioned by the fear of losing that tall and handsome young man you have met. It could be that you had remained lonely for a long time before meeting him and you're now afraid of falling back to loneliness if you left him. You think of those sweet words that are whispered into your ears when you're together. You remember the care and attention he showers on you. He lifts you up when you're feeling emotionally drained and when you express your feelings to him, he grants you a listening ear. You remember how he had taken you round the World in '7' days and all the great memories you've had together. Not to talk about the explosive orgasmic sexual episodes you do have together. With all these seemingly great relationships, the man is still not proposing to you. There are some, ho

By: Stevie Bo y What do you need to do to get a man to love you. If only every woman knew the answer to this question, no one would be on their own. So what exactly do you need to do to get a man to love you? Do You Need To: 1- Be emotionally and physically healthy 2- Beautiful and make an effort in your appearance 3- Skinny 4- Honest and trustworthy 5- Have similar interests as him 6- Constantly make an effort to show him you love and care for him 7- Be supportive and agree with his thought and beliefs 8- Be passionate 9- Not have too much confidence 10- Not be too loud 11- Be interesting and someone who challenges him So many questions you may find yourself asking if you think you have found the man of your dreams and want to be with him forever. But are these suggestion a reality of the way men want a woman to be? Well for most men I am sure it is, but what you need to do is ask yourself if you need to be skinny and beautiful to get a man to love you, then is his