Proven Ways On How To Win Your Man Over Perpetually

  I’ve been married for two years; we dated for three beforehand. It took me a LONG time to figure out — and gosh, it’s so obvious! — that men’s brains are completely different from women’s. Here’s a few examples, and note: I’m not trying to generalize. I speak from experience. Men do not pick up on hints or subtleties.  If you want or need something, speak up frankly. Instead of, “Jane’s boyfriend got her the prettiest blue earrings for her birthday; I wish I had some too,” say, “Babe, for my birthday/our anniversary/the next time you want to spoil me, I want some blue earrings. Here’s a picture of the ones I like.” Your man will be  delighted . There’s nothing unromantic about saying what you want and getting it. Men look for a way to fix things for you.  They are creatures of action. If you don’t want action (i.e., if you just want to vent or grouse or complain), say so up front. This cannot be said often enough. Example: “Honey, I need to vent. Can you just listen for five minute

1. SUCCESS - Both men and women want it all. The difference being that women want a balance in life and is most likely to reject a job offer that doesn't offer that. Men on their part want status and status symbols like houses, cars etc. 2. Emotion - Both men and women feel love but they express it differently. A woman easily talks and shares about her feelings of love, hate and anger but for a man, it's a different story. He rarely talks about it the way a woman does, as a result of the societal standard that expect a man to be "strong". 3. Conflicts - They react and manage conflicts differently. A bad day for a woman is most likely going to end in tears and she relapses in the mode of apportioning blames to who did this and that.  A man is most likely to into some outburst after which you will get him shutting out the situation. You may even find him removing himself from the scene. 4. Friendship - A man is likely to have fewer friends when compared to women.

 1. Femininity - I understand that you need to  to survive in the modern jungle of our society. However being overly too "strong" will hamper your chances of attracting the attention of the male folks. This is not the issue of birds of same same feathers flocking, rather it's an attraction between opposites. Men are generally made to be stoic and strong, a soft effeminate woman who knows her swag will always get heads turning towards her because of her feminine appeal . 2. Ability To Trigger The Hero Instinct In A Man - always making men around you feel like a "hero" will win them over. You can achieve this by simply appreciating little things that he did for you and calling him sweet names that make his head swell . 3. A Sense Of Humor - no body wants to be around someone who is always serious whether it's a man or a woman. A sense of humor and the ability to make a man lighten up from his day-to-day work and  laugh is good 4. Confidence - contrary t

Visit any relationship platform either online or offline and you will be overwhelmed with lots and lots of articles and  what women want in a relationship and tips and how to give it.  The surprising thing here is that there's little or absolutely no space giving to the male folks to express themselves in matters of relationship.  Which I believe is the reason behind a lot of relationship nightmares many ladies are having because most of them know little or nothing about men   1. To feel like your hero We don’t want to be your Clark Kent. We want to be your Superman. We want you to see us as leaping tall buildings in a single bound and catching bullets. Not pushing a mail cart and asking you if we can buy sugar cereal < — true story when I was a boy and married. We want to carry you in our arms and show you the world. Or at least feel that way. And I know it’s our job to get there, not yours. But nothing gives us more strength than a woman who creates a spac

I have always said that men love a good sex and that just like the lead  character in Charles Hawkins’s Oliver Twist “Oliver”, they will keep coming back for more. However you must know that  it takes more than just a good sex to keep him committed to a relationship with you even if you guys are married. It’s true that he may easily get excited sexually when you do some normal stuffs, just like a child who saw a  pack of candies in it’s mother’s hands but the fact remains that if you only stop at that alone, you are most likely to lose him soon to another who has something more to offer. You need to give him more and stability than everything and you are assured that he will perpetually be committed to you. If you’re in a position to support him financially or otherwise in the pursuit of his dreams, please do. But you have sure he’s at peace and that he doesn’t endangered or trapped because of the help you had given him. His love and affection should never be seen as one that y

By:  Stan Onodu   Have you been so hurt in your relationships that you have sworn never to love again? Has your heart been broken and shattered by someone you trusted entirely? I had suffered severely in the hands of one girl early in my search for true love. No sooner had we met, did she present to me a myriad of fake conditions that seemed pathetic. She tricked me into believing that she had a lot of family challenges ranging from her mother being bed-ridden in her village to her facing imminent eviction from her apartment by her land lady. I saw myself as a God-sent for her and I was doing all I possibly could to support her. I paid her house rent for an outright twelve months. I put food on her table. I covered her nakedness and I was constantly footing the medical bills for her sick mother. On the few occasions when the animal in me would rise to demand for sex from her, my conscience would tell me that it would look as if I was helping because of sex. I never deliber

By: Stevie Bo y What do you need to do to get a man to love you. If only every woman knew the answer to this question, no one would be on their own. So what exactly do you need to do to get a man to love you? Do You Need To: 1- Be emotionally and physically healthy 2- Beautiful and make an effort in your appearance 3- Skinny 4- Honest and trustworthy 5- Have similar interests as him 6- Constantly make an effort to show him you love and care for him 7- Be supportive and agree with his thought and beliefs 8- Be passionate 9- Not have too much confidence 10- Not be too loud 11- Be interesting and someone who challenges him So many questions you may find yourself asking if you think you have found the man of your dreams and want to be with him forever. But are these suggestion a reality of the way men want a woman to be? Well for most men I am sure it is, but what you need to do is ask yourself if you need to be skinny and beautiful to get a man to love you, then is his