Proven Ways On How To Win Your Man Over Perpetually

  I’ve been married for two years; we dated for three beforehand. It took me a LONG time to figure out — and gosh, it’s so obvious! — that men’s brains are completely different from women’s. Here’s a few examples, and note: I’m not trying to generalize. I speak from experience. Men do not pick up on hints or subtleties.  If you want or need something, speak up frankly. Instead of, “Jane’s boyfriend got her the prettiest blue earrings for her birthday; I wish I had some too,” say, “Babe, for my birthday/our anniversary/the next time you want to spoil me, I want some blue earrings. Here’s a picture of the ones I like.” Your man will be  delighted . There’s nothing unromantic about saying what you want and getting it. Men look for a way to fix things for you.  They are creatures of action. If you don’t want action (i.e., if you just want to vent or grouse or complain), say so up front. This cannot be said often enough. Example: “Honey, I need to vent. Can you just listen for five minute

 1. Trying To Settle Down Too Early : There's this temptation to start planning for marriage in your mind when you meet you meet a good man, finally. Be warned! Such a move can scare the man away because he is most likely to see you as to too desperate and that your sole aim is to trap him into marriage. 2. Comparing Him To Other Men — It's hard to resist the temptation of desiring that he treats you like Mr A or Mr B treats his woman that start wondering why you your man doesn't measure to the way the other does. Please understand that every person is unique in his or her own ways and appreciate him for whom he is. Wanting him to be like that other man  is a quick way to kill off whatever you guys and to push him away. 3. Not Giving Him Enough Space —  Believe it or not the fact remains that men love their space. Anything other than that, makes them feel like they are being held in captivity Once in a while he may want  to hangout with friends or even be alone by  him

  1 .Mind games : Men hate mind games and unnecessary emotional drama. We deal with too many manipulative situations in real world. We don’t want the same from our lovers. Some times tantrums and a bit girly behavior is cute, but all the times, it kinda suck. Girls use various tactics to keep men at their feet by employing the following tactics a. Disallowing physical love or withholding sex as a soft (cruel) punishment. I have heard a female friend of mine confessing to me that ‘to teach him a lesson’, I will be nice to him,fulfill his every desire but with hold sex or physical touch! b. The silent treatment which is nothing but a combination of emotional  and psychological toture. c. Stressing the man out by taking time that longer than necessary for every thing like a date or accepting your proposals by creating a false time lag, which is often done get more power in the relationship. d. Purposely not initiating everything  the relationship including  little things like text messag

1. SUCCESS - Both men and women want it all. The difference being that women want a balance in life and is most likely to reject a job offer that doesn't offer that. Men on their part want status and status symbols like houses, cars etc. 2. Emotion - Both men and women feel love but they express it differently. A woman easily talks and shares about her feelings of love, hate and anger but for a man, it's a different story. He rarely talks about it the way a woman does, as a result of the societal standard that expect a man to be "strong". 3. Conflicts - They react and manage conflicts differently. A bad day for a woman is most likely going to end in tears and she relapses in the mode of apportioning blames to who did this and that.  A man is most likely to into some outburst after which you will get him shutting out the situation. You may even find him removing himself from the scene. 4. Friendship - A man is likely to have fewer friends when compared to women.

 1. Femininity - I understand that you need to  to survive in the modern jungle of our society. However being overly too "strong" will hamper your chances of attracting the attention of the male folks. This is not the issue of birds of same same feathers flocking, rather it's an attraction between opposites. Men are generally made to be stoic and strong, a soft effeminate woman who knows her swag will always get heads turning towards her because of her feminine appeal . 2. Ability To Trigger The Hero Instinct In A Man - always making men around you feel like a "hero" will win them over. You can achieve this by simply appreciating little things that he did for you and calling him sweet names that make his head swell . 3. A Sense Of Humor - no body wants to be around someone who is always serious whether it's a man or a woman. A sense of humor and the ability to make a man lighten up from his day-to-day work and  laugh is good 4. Confidence - contrary t

It's a known fact that very little or absolutely no information exist on what men want in a relationship and how to understand the male folks. Which has given rise to many assumptions and other wrong ideas about men among the women folks that they tend to see the males as a mistake in creation.   Consequentlynsequently, many of enter into relationship wrongly and with a wrong idea of men.  The resultant is claring when you look at the ra of divorce and break-up  So what do men really want in a woman?  You may be surprised if I tell you that whatmen are very simple, too simple that they are often neglected.   Here are :   1.Feminine Lady   2. Ability to trigger the hero instinct in their man   3. Sense of humor and cheerfulness   4. Self confidence  5. Open to adventures  6. Wearing a smile   7. Being Caring   8. Being playful   9.Having a listening ear  10. Intelligence and smartness   NB: Watch for part 2 in 48 hours where I shall provide details about the above mentioned