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What Men Want in Relationships - What Men Mean What They Ask What You Are Bringing To The Table

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Many a time many women have often assumed that they know what men what in a relationship that most often when the question of what they are going to bring to the table is asked them. they quickly that they have all the answers since they earn a decent income and s quite good looking without even knowing that they understand the question in the first instance. Please we progress further, its important that you know that men do not care about the many degrees you have in your name or the weight of your paycheque. Rather they are more interested in you being there for him to encourage and cheer him up. This is why it is wrong for any woman to respond that she will be bringing her many degrees or worst still your money to the table because he did not ask you out because of financial security but someone that will give him a listening ear. Someone that will be there for him to nurture his many wounds from the battles. This is often when you have most eligible high-value men by-passing most

7 Key Things Men Want In A Relationship That Most Women Don't Know

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I agree that every woman out there must not be Cardi B or Angelina Jollie to attract and keep men’s attention. All that is needed is an understanding of men; what they want out of the relationship and then doing your best towards being that woman while still being yourself How to make a guy want you Let’s tell ourselves the truth a greater majority of women go about attracting the man that may be caught their fancy, the wrong way.  Men may be attracted to good looks but a disrespectful, loud-mouthed woman is a big NO! NO! for most men. So don’t think it’s all about your looks, degrees, or career. Men go into serious relationships not because he wants to catch fun but to have peace and stability I am assuming that you are on a quest for a serious relationship as a result of which you are reading this now. Be assured that you won’t be disappointed here. Here are the key issues you should take reconsider so that you will be able to attract the kind of men you want in your life. 1. Confid

Feminist Hypocrisies - the world modern women fought for and the one they want

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1. They want to be queen in kingless kingdom 2. They want to be treated equally as men only it favor them but are quick to complain on not being treated right when it doesn't favor them 3. They want fairness in our competitive world but won't complain when they get a FREE PASS at nightclubs and men don't. 4. The don't complain of unfairness and double when companies are compelled to give a certain employment quota solely to women and men none. 5. They are FREE to change their minds and walk out of a relationship without repercussions but a man don't. A visit to the courts will attest to that. 6. It's right for them to seen and taken as a gift but a No! No No! when a man wants to be treated as such. 7. They want an end to "gender roles" but talk of asking a man out, "no that's his job". 8. They want equality and fairness but won't complain when women and children are given priority over men in emergencies. 9. A man who doesn't send

5 Key Things Women Should Know About Men

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  I’ve been married for two years; we dated for three beforehand. It took me a LONG time to figure out — and gosh, it’s so obvious! — that men’s brains are completely different from women’s. Here’s a few examples, and note: I’m not trying to generalize. I speak from experience. Men do not pick up on hints or subtleties.  If you want or need something, speak up frankly. Instead of, “Jane’s boyfriend got her the prettiest blue earrings for her birthday; I wish I had some too,” say, “Babe, for my birthday/our anniversary/the next time you want to spoil me, I want some blue earrings. Here’s a picture of the ones I like.” Your man will be  delighted . There’s nothing unromantic about saying what you want and getting it. Men look for a way to fix things for you.  They are creatures of action. If you don’t want action (i.e., if you just want to vent or grouse or complain), say so up front. This cannot be said often enough. Example: “Honey, I need to vent. Can you just listen for five minute

8 Big Mistakes Women Make With Men That Push Men Away

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 1. Trying To Settle Down Too Early : There's this temptation to start planning for marriage in your mind when you meet you meet a good man, finally. Be warned! Such a move can scare the man away because he is most likely to see you as to too desperate and that your sole aim is to trap him into marriage. 2. Comparing Him To Other Men — It's hard to resist the temptation of desiring that he treats you like Mr A or Mr B treats his woman that start wondering why you your man doesn't measure to the way the other does. Please understand that every person is unique in his or her own ways and appreciate him for whom he is. Wanting him to be like that other man  is a quick way to kill off whatever you guys and to push him away. 3. Not Giving Him Enough Space —  Believe it or not the fact remains that men love their space. Anything other than that, makes them feel like they are being held in captivity Once in a while he may want  to hangout with friends or even be alone by  him

Six things which makes a man fall out of love

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  1 .Mind games : Men hate mind games and unnecessary emotional drama. We deal with too many manipulative situations in real world. We don’t want the same from our lovers. Some times tantrums and a bit girly behavior is cute, but all the times, it kinda suck. Girls use various tactics to keep men at their feet by employing the following tactics a. Disallowing physical love or withholding sex as a soft (cruel) punishment. I have heard a female friend of mine confessing to me that ‘to teach him a lesson’, I will be nice to him,fulfill his every desire but with hold sex or physical touch! b. The silent treatment which is nothing but a combination of emotional  and psychological toture. c. Stressing the man out by taking time that longer than necessary for every thing like a date or accepting your proposals by creating a false time lag, which is often done get more power in the relationship. d. Purposely not initiating everything  the relationship including  little things like text messag

Facts About Men - 6 Ways Men Are Different From Women

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1. SUCCESS - Both men and women want it all. The difference being that women want a balance in life and is most likely to reject a job offer that doesn't offer that. Men on their part want status and status symbols like houses, cars etc. 2. Emotion - Both men and women feel love but they express it differently. A woman easily talks and shares about her feelings of love, hate and anger but for a man, it's a different story. He rarely talks about it the way a woman does, as a result of the societal standard that expect a man to be "strong". 3. Conflicts - They react and manage conflicts differently. A bad day for a woman is most likely going to end in tears and she relapses in the mode of apportioning blames to who did this and that.  A man is most likely to into some outburst after which you will get him shutting out the situation. You may even find him removing himself from the scene. 4. Friendship - A man is likely to have fewer friends when compared to women.